I decided to write this post in response to a question from a reader. Asking my “expert” opinion on the matter of cunnilingus and how to get a man to perform it when he isn’t into it, he had tried it once and swore he would never do it again.
The best advice I can give you on any matter concerning sex and something you want to try or you want your partner to try is to talk to them. For this question specifically you should talk to your man and find out what it was that turned him off in the first place.
If you think about it, there are a number of reasons that a guy might not want to perform oral sex on girl. Perhaps their last experience was with someone that was less then hygienic, so odor and taste could be an issue. Maybe they didn’t like the feeling of the hair in their mouth and between their teeth. It could be that they have an issue with putting their mouth somewhere they feel it shouldn’t be. But talk to him and find out what the reason is, this will help you both find a way to try to overcome the aversion.
For example, if it is taste use a flavored lubricant. There are MANY different flavors, there is bound to be one that he would enjoy. As I have said in the past, make sure that you are clean, make sure that your hair is short or shaved which ever is your preference. You might also want to try a pair of edible panties. Try to make it as fun and enjoyable for him as possible.
If he likes getting a blow job I recommend offering to do a “69.” This way he is being gratified at the same time you are getting what you want. Ask him to try it just once with you and see if he still has the same feelings about. Sometimes to overcome a bad experience you have to dive right in and try it again.
The best advice I can give you on any matter concerning sex and something you want to try or you want your partner to try is to talk to them. For this question specifically you should talk to your man and find out what it was that turned him off in the first place.
If you think about it, there are a number of reasons that a guy might not want to perform oral sex on girl. Perhaps their last experience was with someone that was less then hygienic, so odor and taste could be an issue. Maybe they didn’t like the feeling of the hair in their mouth and between their teeth. It could be that they have an issue with putting their mouth somewhere they feel it shouldn’t be. But talk to him and find out what the reason is, this will help you both find a way to try to overcome the aversion.
For example, if it is taste use a flavored lubricant. There are MANY different flavors, there is bound to be one that he would enjoy. As I have said in the past, make sure that you are clean, make sure that your hair is short or shaved which ever is your preference. You might also want to try a pair of edible panties. Try to make it as fun and enjoyable for him as possible.
If he likes getting a blow job I recommend offering to do a “69.” This way he is being gratified at the same time you are getting what you want. Ask him to try it just once with you and see if he still has the same feelings about. Sometimes to overcome a bad experience you have to dive right in and try it again.
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