Here are five fabulous sex mantras to move your sex life up several notches. Let us show you how to get the orgasms you deserve that will help take you to your sexual nirvana.
Secret #1 Explore your body
Have you ever put on some music, dimmed out the lights, become totally naked and really just explored your most sensual zones, touched your body and studied your body, its shape and beauty – on your own? If not, then it’s never too late to try. Your body is a palace of pleasures and there are some unconventional erogenous spots, which you are probably not even aware of yet and will only find by exploring yourself, figuring out what you like, what makes you feel good, etc. All you have to do is take the time to become acquainted with your hot spots and learn how incredible it feels when they are teased and stimulated. Become your own passion professor, after all apart from satisfying self pleasure, it’s also important to know how and where you like to be touched and what brings you to orgasm or how else are you going to explain it to you guy.
“When a guy I recently started dating asked me what my favourite hot spot is, I had nothing to say, so I slyly told him why you don’t figure it out on your own. The same night I ran home and started something of a self-pleasure game and found out about all my hidden hot spots and guess what, there are more than one and they really make me scream and squirm with pleasure every time I play with them.” Megan, Bradford
Secret #2 Worship and love your body
Most women have serious issues of insecurity when it comes to their bodies. Do I look fat? Or do I smell down there? And should I trim my pubic hair or shave it off? Are common questions us women ask ourselves everyday. In the majority of cases men really don’t care about they way you look or whether you’re a few pounds overweight. Great sex has nothing to do with beautiful looks. Just be confident about yourself and the confidence will be the key to great sex. Men love women who are secure and confident about their body and sexuality. Learn to love yourself by enjoying spending time examining your naked reflection in the mirror. Try lighting candles or dimming the lights, as this plays a role in highlighting your beautiful curves. Enjoy your body, as if you don’t then how can anyone else.
“I was always too inhibited about getting totally naked in front of my husband with lights turned on. He assured me time and again that he loves every part of my body but still I kept stalling things. When a co-worker of mine, a short and stout female, told me about the randy, raunchy actions she and her beau did in the sack, with lights turned ON, I was flabbergasted. That night I tried it out and it worked wonders. I am more confident about myself now and know that low-confidence was a hindrance that kept my sex life lacklustre.” Emma, Leicester
Secret #3 Speak up
Speak, speak and speak. Tell him everything; right from how you feel and what you like to what makes you wild. If there is something that you don’t like, suggest him an alternative, but try doing it tactfully. Moan if you like but make it clear to your guy that he is giving you pleasure and that you enjoy sex. Like us, guys has sex egos that need constant attention, so telling him he is bad in bed will do nothing to boost his confidence, nor the quality of you sex. Even when you are not in your bedroom, don’t be shy to discuss sex. Teasing him about sex during dinner or sending texts during work hours are also good ways to communicate.
“My boyfriend of two years was totally shocked when I moaned, groaned, and shouted for the first time in two years. Later, he asked me about it, somewhat shyly, and I asked if he didn’t like it. He said he simply loved it and it made him go wild with passion. Since then, we talk freely about what we do in the bedroom, instead of kissing each other good night. Kudos to my sister who told me all about it!” Sarah, Kingswood
Secret #4 Lube it up
Just like your car, your body needs lubrication, and not necessarily just when you are feeling dry. Whether you’re into longer, rougher sex, or simply want to add a gorgeously silky glide to your sex, lubricants are the answer. They help to increase sensitivity and satisfaction and can get you going in minutes. Sex lubricants are not used as mere remedy for vaginal dryness. Their unconventional use leads to smooth, frictionless and overwhelming sex.
“I always prided myself for having a well lubricated honey pot. I felt no need for lubricants. But when I got these basket of goodies containing adult games, bondage tapes, massage oils, lubricants, etc as a honeymoon gift from my best friend, I gave lubes a try. My honeymoon was the best thing ever because of it. Thanks Jeannette.” Chloe, London
Secret #5 Don’t let sex become stale and dreary
There are several ways to ignite the dying passion. Let’s be honest, after a few years of being together, everybody feels boredom creeping in the bedroom. Women turn up with excuses of headaches and stress and men start wandering for a beer with their mates and end up at nearest pub all night long. The secret mantra to keep the action going on between the sheets is to introduce something new to your relationship, or just dare to be different. Shed all your inhibitions and rent a porn, buy a sex toy or just try different sex positions. Some couple sex toys that add fire to your sex, and will be fun for your man too, are vibrating cock rings and love swings. You can even buy a G-spot vibrator for yourself and discover the fun that G-spot stimulation offers. Guide your man towards your latest discovery and turn your slow-mo sex life into hot and happening.
“When my boyfriend broke up with me after three years of healthy relationship (purely my perception), I couldn’t stop myself from asking him what went wrong. His answer that time changed me totally and that our sex life was boring and unsatisfying. However, when my new boyfriend introduced blindfolds, handcuffs and vibrators, I realised my ex was right. Our sex life did suck. I wish I had tried some of these wonderful things before.” Eliza, Liverpool
Secret #1 Explore your body
Have you ever put on some music, dimmed out the lights, become totally naked and really just explored your most sensual zones, touched your body and studied your body, its shape and beauty – on your own? If not, then it’s never too late to try. Your body is a palace of pleasures and there are some unconventional erogenous spots, which you are probably not even aware of yet and will only find by exploring yourself, figuring out what you like, what makes you feel good, etc. All you have to do is take the time to become acquainted with your hot spots and learn how incredible it feels when they are teased and stimulated. Become your own passion professor, after all apart from satisfying self pleasure, it’s also important to know how and where you like to be touched and what brings you to orgasm or how else are you going to explain it to you guy.
“When a guy I recently started dating asked me what my favourite hot spot is, I had nothing to say, so I slyly told him why you don’t figure it out on your own. The same night I ran home and started something of a self-pleasure game and found out about all my hidden hot spots and guess what, there are more than one and they really make me scream and squirm with pleasure every time I play with them.” Megan, Bradford
Secret #2 Worship and love your body
Most women have serious issues of insecurity when it comes to their bodies. Do I look fat? Or do I smell down there? And should I trim my pubic hair or shave it off? Are common questions us women ask ourselves everyday. In the majority of cases men really don’t care about they way you look or whether you’re a few pounds overweight. Great sex has nothing to do with beautiful looks. Just be confident about yourself and the confidence will be the key to great sex. Men love women who are secure and confident about their body and sexuality. Learn to love yourself by enjoying spending time examining your naked reflection in the mirror. Try lighting candles or dimming the lights, as this plays a role in highlighting your beautiful curves. Enjoy your body, as if you don’t then how can anyone else.
“I was always too inhibited about getting totally naked in front of my husband with lights turned on. He assured me time and again that he loves every part of my body but still I kept stalling things. When a co-worker of mine, a short and stout female, told me about the randy, raunchy actions she and her beau did in the sack, with lights turned ON, I was flabbergasted. That night I tried it out and it worked wonders. I am more confident about myself now and know that low-confidence was a hindrance that kept my sex life lacklustre.” Emma, Leicester
Secret #3 Speak up
Speak, speak and speak. Tell him everything; right from how you feel and what you like to what makes you wild. If there is something that you don’t like, suggest him an alternative, but try doing it tactfully. Moan if you like but make it clear to your guy that he is giving you pleasure and that you enjoy sex. Like us, guys has sex egos that need constant attention, so telling him he is bad in bed will do nothing to boost his confidence, nor the quality of you sex. Even when you are not in your bedroom, don’t be shy to discuss sex. Teasing him about sex during dinner or sending texts during work hours are also good ways to communicate.
“My boyfriend of two years was totally shocked when I moaned, groaned, and shouted for the first time in two years. Later, he asked me about it, somewhat shyly, and I asked if he didn’t like it. He said he simply loved it and it made him go wild with passion. Since then, we talk freely about what we do in the bedroom, instead of kissing each other good night. Kudos to my sister who told me all about it!” Sarah, Kingswood
Secret #4 Lube it up
Just like your car, your body needs lubrication, and not necessarily just when you are feeling dry. Whether you’re into longer, rougher sex, or simply want to add a gorgeously silky glide to your sex, lubricants are the answer. They help to increase sensitivity and satisfaction and can get you going in minutes. Sex lubricants are not used as mere remedy for vaginal dryness. Their unconventional use leads to smooth, frictionless and overwhelming sex.
“I always prided myself for having a well lubricated honey pot. I felt no need for lubricants. But when I got these basket of goodies containing adult games, bondage tapes, massage oils, lubricants, etc as a honeymoon gift from my best friend, I gave lubes a try. My honeymoon was the best thing ever because of it. Thanks Jeannette.” Chloe, London
Secret #5 Don’t let sex become stale and dreary
There are several ways to ignite the dying passion. Let’s be honest, after a few years of being together, everybody feels boredom creeping in the bedroom. Women turn up with excuses of headaches and stress and men start wandering for a beer with their mates and end up at nearest pub all night long. The secret mantra to keep the action going on between the sheets is to introduce something new to your relationship, or just dare to be different. Shed all your inhibitions and rent a porn, buy a sex toy or just try different sex positions. Some couple sex toys that add fire to your sex, and will be fun for your man too, are vibrating cock rings and love swings. You can even buy a G-spot vibrator for yourself and discover the fun that G-spot stimulation offers. Guide your man towards your latest discovery and turn your slow-mo sex life into hot and happening.
“When my boyfriend broke up with me after three years of healthy relationship (purely my perception), I couldn’t stop myself from asking him what went wrong. His answer that time changed me totally and that our sex life was boring and unsatisfying. However, when my new boyfriend introduced blindfolds, handcuffs and vibrators, I realised my ex was right. Our sex life did suck. I wish I had tried some of these wonderful things before.” Eliza, Liverpool
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